Thanks, postman, for answering.
A. Re: 1, being that I don't know how to use the Gmail API, if I were to call Godaddy, would you imagine anyone understand what I was asking for, and then be able to change it?
B. If the answer to above is "no", is there a layman's guide to using the Gmail API to resolve this?
C. If your #2 is the issue, is there a means with dealing with this so that I could get my notifications anyway?
D. I've brought this up to gravity forms before, and it is plain that this is one of the most annoying things that they deal with there, and often without success. Are you aware of a gravity forms alternative where the notification process has been successfully worked out?